I know that sometimes it's impossible to do everything but I like to push my limit. It's in my nature to try to be super woman. Realistically life will make us choose. I could have stayed up late at night, lost sleep to get the blog written and posted. But at what cost? My sleep is very important. As human beings we need a certain amount of sleep to function effectively. I want to be at my best for myself and everyone around me. This was not an option I could entertain. We need to have peace about the decisions we make, which is how we know it's the right choice for us. There is no guilt!
I was thinking about the brides I have met lately, how busy they are with their jobs, families, and friends. Where do you find the time? It's this simple, you have an amazing life and it will not slow down because you are planning your wedding. Don't stress yourself and feel guilty because you are behind in your planning and maybe the DJ hasn't been booked yet. Take a moment and breathe...
I could look at my lapse in blog posts and scold myself... Bad little blogger!... or I can get back on the horse, moving forward. I made a decision to grab the reins and ride this through.
Finding the time is not always easy you may need to give something up for a while until your back on track. I like to write down all my blog topics on a list then cross them off after they are written. Make a wedding to do list. Pick two items on that list to accomplish each day. Ask for help if you need it. Divide the list with your fiancé, chances are that he would love to hire a Dj and you can tackle something else. Before you know it you will be back on track!
I'm so happy to be able to blog again and looking forward to doing video soon.
Peace, Love & Happiness Always
Tracey
